As a member of the Chnlove Asia dating site, I have always been attracted to Chinese women. Whether it is their beautiful figures, silk-like hair, exotic features or traditional values, Chinese women rank at the top of the world’s most gorgeous women. Before you start to date Chinese women, it is useful to know some of the most common myths about them.
Myth No.1: Chinese women are submissive and obedient
If you want to have a chinese girl for slave labor or a submissive wife, you are probably going to be disappointed. Although traditional Chinese culture dictates their women to be modest, conservative and obedient, modern Chinese women are seldom submissive after you really get to know them. Many of them are smart, confident, independent ladies who have their own ideas and make their own decisions. True that obediance is a good thing for most men, but it must be cherished and rewarded with true love. Women, no matter what culture, enjoy the little things that a man does for them.
Myth No.2: You’re too old for her
Age is a huge barrier to dating beautiful younger women in the Western world, but it has very little significance in the Eastern way of life. It’s known in the East that with age comes wisdom, knowledge resources and experience. It’s nothing for a 45-year-old man to have a beautiful Chinese girlfriend in her 20’s. As a matter of fact, many Chinese women want to be with a mature, older man who is more stable and could provide a future for them.
Myth No.3: Chinese women only marry foreigners for financial security
A lot of people think that the ladies on Chnlove are trying to find a way out of poverty by marrying a foreigner, and they are only interested in rich men. Of course, gold diggers exist, but the majority of Chnlove ladies want to find a foreign husband because they believe that Western men are more thoughtful, considerate, interesting and romantic than Chinese men. In particular, many Chinese women are of the impression that foreign men are more respectful of women because in the ancient Chinese culture, male chauvinism is a very strong factor that survives till today. In that culture, women take a back seat and men aren’t that comfortable with women in power or even women being in equal power. In the West, that revolution has already played out and men are perceived to be more learned, more gracious and certainly more confident in their manhood to accept a woman as his equal. Therefore he gives her due respect. He would discuss with her, consult her and confide in her without prejudice, a trait the Chinese women still find lacking among the male population of China.