When dating the hot Chinese girls on Chnlove, many gentlemen come across communication problems, which brings obstacles to the development of their relationship, some even leads to failed relationships. So, what has caused these problems and what we can do about them?
Gentlemen would feel frustrated and blame their Chinese women if their relationships don’t work. However, as analysis from some love experts, it’s because of decisions we make and expectations we have about the relationships. Following are faulty thinking or myths which would make us walk away from a potentially great relationship with the right partner.
•It was love at first sight when you met each other. — You probably had lust at first sight when you met a fantastic Chinese girl, but instant chemistry doesn’t necessarily mean you’re with the right person. It takes time to really get to know someone.
•Love conquers all. — No matter how much you love each other, you still may not be able to resolve conflicts and overcome serious problems between you and your Chinese girlfriend, especially where culture differences exists. It takes good relationship skills and a lot of hard work to resolve conflicts and problems. It needs trust, understanding and patience from each other.
•If your Chinese girlfriend loves you, she should know what you want or need. — She is just another individual far from you in China, she can not read or guess what’s on your mind, not to mention she can only know you from mails or other contacts.
•In an ideal relationship, your lady partner should fulfill you in every way. — We all have the realities of our lives to deal with. Stress, hurt feelings, disappointments, frustrations, illnesses, responsibilities and obligations can keep most people from being fulfilled at some point in a relationship. You should understand your Chinese girl’s needs as well as express your own needs more effectively.
Most people think that great relationships are “found”, so they go from one relationship to another trying to “find my perfect match Chinese girl”. Actually, love needs to be nurtured. By developing more effective relationship skills instead of making assumptions about your Chinese girlfriend you can avoid or resolve many dating problems. Instead of getting stuck in an unsatisfying dating patterns, a deeper and more meaningful relationship can be built.
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