I have always been attracted to the exotic beauty of Chinese women, and I am a very lucky fellow to have found my gorgeous Chinese wife through Chnlove.com. I truly believe this is a legitimate Chinese dating site and hate to see people calling Chnlove a “scam” just because things did not work out the way they planned. Chnlove has changed my life and I feel compelled to write about my experiences here so that more people will be encouraged to find their happiness on Chnlove.
About 1 year ago, I joined Chnlove, and soon I received about 50 admirer mails from hot Chinese women! I wrote to a few of them, but none of them turned out to be what I was looking for. I then used the search function and found a reasonable match. We exchanged very nice letters, then she started persuading me to come to China to visit her. When I arrived in China, she met me at the airport and took me to a hotel. Everything was real. I did have visions of arriving in China and finding no lady was there to meet me, but I gambled and she was right there waiting for me. We had a great time together, although we had problems understanding each other sometimes. Her English was not so good back then, but the chemistry between us was strong enough to make up for it. We’re now happily married. My point is, my experience was not a scam at all. I was on the alert for it and prepared myself not to be scammed.
Individually every person and every situation will be unique. Chinese women are no different than women in the rest of the world. People have different intentions, and some are not as good-natured as others. So it is always a good idea to be cautious. Don’t fall in love after just viewing a few enhanced photos and some sweet letters. Stop believing in fairy tales. If you’re foolish enough to buy into the lovey dovey stuff, you are not being scammed. You diluted yourself and have no one to blame but yourself.
Chnlove is probably the safest place to meet Chinese women. If you fail, don’t blame Chnlove. It’s an easy excuse for your own lack of caution. You need to do your homework, and take a chance if you think it is worth it. Make sure you retain some emotional armor, and always keep a back up plan just in case things do not turn out to be what it first appeared.